Recently, I have been thinking a lot about mourning jewelry and the significance of jewelry that has been passed from one to another.  It is so special to own and wear a personal item from someone you love, something they wore close to their own heartbeat.  As we all age, the losses of loved ones mount.  There have been many losses in my life, but I am happy and honored to own one special piece of my husband's family history. 



What you probably don't know about me, is that I love watches.  Big watches.  A great investment timepiece is also a functional piece of jewelry.  I'd rather look at the bold face dial my father-in-law looked at throughout his busy day, and meaningful life than check my iPhone for the time.  

Years ago when this inspirational man passed away, I wore his watch constantly. As time passed, I have stored it.  But now, with autumn around the corner, I am looking forward to it resuming its familiar and beloved spot on my wrist, and with it memories of him in my thoughts and heart.  

When searching through images of him, we found this interesting shot, (note the sandals and cigarette while driving this go-cart!) and I don't know for sure if this is the watch he is wearing, but I'd like to think so. I had this picture framed in our house because he is admired, cherished, and still missed.



When someone you love passes away, you immediately want something of theirs to hold close to you.  A piece of them to remain with you.  I happen to be fortunate to be on the receiving end of this classic and sentimentally irreplaceable and now vintage Baume & Mercier watch.

Antique and estate jewelry provided by Fancy Flea Antiques and Jewelry

Every jewelry collector has a weakness - something they just can't get enough of - and mine is bracelets. I had the pleasure of stacking some of our diamond and gold bangles (from our upcoming collection) with some gorgeous antique, diamond and Victorian pearl bracelets from Fancy Flea Antiques. For me, I can't justify investing in a new bracelet if it doesn't match or compliment at least two of those I already own.  Mixing yellow and white gold with diamonds is a classic choice and can be easily done.  Normally pearls would not suit me, but I might be having a change of heart!

I recommend when shopping for vintage and estate jewelry to remember what you already own, and bring your favorite items with you. I like that I can add or subtract to make a loud or quiet statement.  It is more interesting and always personal when mixing estate jewelry with modern jewelry.  If carefully curated, it will guarantee no one else will have what you feel represents your unique personal style.

Hands and fingers are the style makers in a conversation, choose wisely what they say about you.

To see more antique jewelry from Fancy Flea Antiques read our story posted on Gem Gossip.